On Cutting Cords and Bringing In Love: Guest Post by Lili Reyes

As a continuation from last week’s topic on Pranic Healing, this week we have awesome healer Lili taking over the blog. She leads an incredible weekly meditation on Sundays for relationship healing, with a forgiveness technique that’s just as helpful to you as it is the person/dynamic you’re working through. You can check it out here.

Seems like as the summer comes to an end, the summer lovers do too. There has been an increasing number of clients and others who have been seeking help in trying to process a break up. Here’s a question I received from a beautiful young woman who has been processing her own separation and had concerns most people do when they come to me for healings. After reading my response to her question, she expressed that she was finally able to sleep and her anxiety lifted. It’s my hope that, if you too are having a hard time from a breakup, you find relief and consolation.

Hi Lili,

I hope I’m not bothering you. I’m worried about something… In my most recent energy healing session the healer cut cords…she didn’t tell me, she just did it as part of the healing process.

Does this ruin chances of a reconciliation with my husband?

As we are not in contact, the energetic contact is all we had…if that has been cut (and I felt it) will the reconciliation happen? Will he feel this shift too? My heart is not welling up with love when I look at his picture now. I don’t want him to feel like there is nothing connecting us. My whole work these past six months has been to draw him in energetically. To heal our relationship energetically. Now I don’t feel that same level of emotion. 

How do I reattach these cords?

Looking forward to your reassurance and guidance. 



Dear Eve,

You’re not bothering me at all, it’s my pleasure to be of service.

There are two kinds of cords, negative and positive. The positive, loving cords between any two people are impossible to cut; those are there forever. The cords that were cut were negative cords, which are imperative to remove, even on a daily basis, with people we love. When you look clairvoyantly cords are hollow tubes attached to two people that transfer energy back and forth. That’s why you’ll often hear people say they feel drained or emotional from being around certain people. Likewise, you’ll hear others say they feel inspired or happy when around other certain people. These emotions get passed through these cords and in other ways. In any case, it’s important to remove the negative cords so the positive ones are dominant. So in your case, we definitely want the negative cords cut. The positive ones are still there, don’t worry.

Important to remember several things: the purpose of receiving healing is for your benefit. When you feel good your outer reality will match what you feel internally. Most religions, spiritual practices, and the law of attraction state this; it is a fundamental law of the universe. Like attracts like.

Inversely, when one is sad or depressed, resentful, excessively worried, or needy, you’ll attract more of what matches that: experiences of not having what you want to be able to match those negative emotions.

The universe *always* listens and delivers, it’s all a matter of what you’re asking for. Not asking in words, but in feeling. You can’t feel depressed and bring in experiences of joy, and vice versa. They do not match in frequencies.

Also important to remember, everyone has free will and we can’t force anyone to fall in love with us or be in relationships with us. If any such spell or command were to force that, it would actually result in generating negative karma in the future – we definitely don’t want that.

But what we can do is influence someone’s emotions. Like stated before, the energies that get transferred through positive cords, our aura, and our feeling, evoke those emotions in others. And *that’s* what the healing sessions you’re receiving are for. To help you feel good without needing your husband. To feel happy, inspired, free, loving, and sexy without needing any man! And when you bask in those feelings long enough, the right partner who is able to deliver more experiences that match those same positive emotions (whether it’s your husband or someone else) will immediately be drawn to you. Drawing someone in is not what we do deliberately, it’s a *result* of what we do for ourselves energetically.

Point being, the less you need him the better your chances. Because if right now you feel needy, it’s actually only going to push him away more. Get back to you. Get back to what makes you happy, truly. Get back to what makes you feel like the best version of yourself. Just keep repeating to yourself, “Like attracts like. Am I feeling what I want to experience in my near future?” Do what you need to help you get to those good feeling places. And the purpose of the healings is to *support* the personal work you’re doing. The healings deeply remove negative energies, blockages, and obstacles that prevent you from reaching those good feeling places. But essentially, you’re doing the long-term work. Like going to the gym for a healthy and fit physical body, and hiring a coach to help you reach your goals. Same thing.

So if you’re looking at his picture and not feeling the love, do some deep inner reflection and practice self-honesty about the relationship. And/or seek a therapist’s help. Talking it out to yourself or with a professional may help you realize what you truly want in a healthy relationship. Maybe you’re realizing that there are other relationships that can provide that, and that this connection with your husband has met its expiration? In which case, thank God for the blessings and lessons and wonderful experiences it has given you. Doesn’t go without saying that you can still heal the relationship and part ways. Healing the relationship is to release any resentments or negative projections you have toward him. You can still feel peace and love and mutual respect and decide to just be friends. The goal is inner peace.

I do believe in miracles. I believe miracles are a natural part of our existence. So I don’t doubt that your husband can come back. But I also believe miracles happen as silver linings when we think the worst has happened. Be open to the millions of ways God provides miracles as people or opportunities. And I also know to listen to people in their words and actions. So if someone wants to leave, let them. God will provide a miracle partner that meets your needs and desires.

Also, on a more personal note: in my younger days whenever I went through a breakup my sister used to tell me, “a man’s rejection is God’s protection.” And boy, is it true. I obviously did not know it at the time of each breakup, but each of those exes from the past ended up being total losers lol. Or maybe not, but they were still not the men I thought they would become. But I couldn’t see it until years later when I’d have a “where are they now” episode and either look them up or reconnect as friends and realize that they are not men I would want to be with! And God protected me from being in a rut, from being unhappy, or from being in a relationship that I didn’t deserve and was unfulfilling. The breakups were actually gifts.

So consider this vacation time you have right now as a gift. The gift of time and opportunity to get back to who you truly are: a kick-ass, sexy, intelligent, powerful, fun-loving woman! And then let’s see what kind of kick-ass, sexy, intelligent, powerful, fun-loving man you attract. 😉

Hope this helps. And pardon the length. There was just a lot to say. ☺

Many blessings to you, dear. Let me know how else I can be of assistance to you.



Lili is an official representative of the U.S. Pranic Healing Center. We are honored to have her as a practitioner at Liberate and is available for one-on-one sessions. She also leads meditation on Sundays at 2pm with group healings. If you have any questions on Pranic Healing or your healing journey, please contact her at [email protected], or call our shop at 323) 745-0495 to book an appointment with her. 

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We often hear that the leading cause of our problems is within ourselves. But so is the solution.

It may seem far-fetched, but the power to solve all of our physical and emotional issues, whether it’s health, relationships, career, finances, self-esteem, or something else, is in our hands.

Metaphysical counseling helps us uncover the root of our suffering and address it accordingly. Let’s find out how!

Great for: Transitions, getting to the next level, breaking free of limiting beliefs or blockages, empowering one to believe in themselves, having accountability through your goals

what is metaphysics

Metaphysics is the most abstract branch of philosophy that deals with the first principles of existence. In Greek, the word metaphysics means “after the things of nature”.

Metaphysics examines the very nature of reality. It offers explanations for phenomena that cannot be explained by “natural” science or that are “beyond the physical”.

This science studies the individual as a whole, as a physical and spiritual being.

Certain types of chakra healing and other holistic, spiritual healing practices, personal development, and even business coaching are based on metaphysics. They typically include working on physical, mental, and spiritual aspects of one’s being to resolve issues that person is facing.

The fundamental law of metaphysics is that every action or decision causes a reaction or an effect. Everything that happens to us (positive or negative) results from past actions or decisions in this lifetime or before the present life.

Similarly, everything we do now will have an effect on our life in the future. This law is better known as karma (action).

It is also believed that we must resolve our life’s issues in this lifetime.

What is metaphysical counseling?

Metaphysical counseling is based on the principle that everyone is sent by the Soul (higher self) to grow at all levels of their being through their life experiences and the lessons they learn in life.

Sometimes referred to as spiritual or transpersonal counseling, it represents a whole person approach – body, mind, and spirit. This type of counseling helps us better understand our life experiences by explaining aspects that our senses cannot perceive.

To put it simply, metaphysical counseling is a form of therapy that empowers us to empower ourselves.

There are many ways metaphysical counseling can take place. This will depend on the practitioner you choose, the kind of spirituality they practice, and the specific issues you may be looking to address.

Some counselors will advise you on the use of crystals for healing, while others will stress the importance of prayer.

This is why it is essential to find a counselor whose beliefs align with yours. Otherwise, your counseling might not have the desired effect.

What can metaphysical counseling help us with?

Metaphysical counseling is a type of holistic-approach therapy based on spiritual principles. This psycho-spiritual approach helps people live a more authentic life by making conscious choices.

It is a self-empowering therapy that gives us the tools to identify and address the imbalances in our belief system that cause conflict and prevent us from achieving success and happiness. These beliefs are so subconscious that we aren’t always aware of them.

With the help of a therapist, people can discover the fundamental causes of their suffering and reach a solution through self-discovery.

It is all about learning to utilize our own self-healing power to reinstate harmony.

This can apply on multiple levels – physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual. Good metaphysical counseling will address all of those.

What does a metaphysical counselor do?

A metaphysical counselor is capable of healing not only the human mind but the body as well. They can help with various mental issues, including depression, anxiety, and loneliness, or any physical illness, by offering guidance and support to their clients.

A metaphysical counselor can help us navigate our way to health, success, strength, or anything else we desire. They also help clients understand their spiritual nature in this lifetime and beyond.

Each counselor will have their own approach; some will focus on the metaphysical properties of the things around you and how to use those to your benefit, while others will prefer working on your own inner world.

We are all exposed to various positive and negative influences that shape our daily actions, thoughts, and reality. Negative impacts lead to issues like anxiety, negativity, and close-mindedness.

Metaphysical counseling aims to free people from these negative influences and their effects.

Gaining a better understanding of ourselves and our connection to the physical and spiritual world surrounding us with the help of a metaphysical counselor gives us the ability to recognize these harmful influences and build a defense mechanism.

The root of these problems lies deeper than the physical, mental, or emotional sphere. To find a solution, we must target the source. And that lies at the deepest and wisest level of our being – the level of the Soul. Many life situations can only be addressed through the metaphysical laws, and the soul factor is always present. Metaphysical counselors teach us numerous powerful techniques and spiritual principles we can utilize to find the greater good in any challenging situation.

They give us the tools to find a solution to our life issues without a struggle, using less energy in the process.

What to expect from your first metaphysical counseling session

During the first session, the client answers a series of questions regarding their life and the issues that are troubling them.

The counselor listens attentively to understand not only the surface issue but also the stressful beliefs and patterns that are causing the problem.

Further steps depend on the specific type of counseling and the counselor you choose. But after a counseling session, the goal is for clients to experience a greater sense of inner peace and well-being.

Not a one-size-fits-all approach

Metaphysics is a versatile form of therapy, so it can be adjusted to the client’s changing needs as the sessions develop.

Therapists use a variety of counseling skills and techniques. They usually determine which method is the most suitable, depending on the client’s condition at that moment.

For example, you may focus on meditation to prepare yourself for success but turn to more conversation-based therapy to deal with anxiety.

As you and your counselor work together, you will find what works best for you personally. This is one of the significant benefits of metaphysical approaches – they are highly flexible.

Metaphysics can be applied to almost any condition and is incredibly helpful with issues regarding:

mental health
challenges in the workplace
relationship issues
dealing with stress and anxiety
understanding emotional reactions
unlocking habitual patterns